Relationships

Recently I've a conversation with a fren of mine...
I call him pupz... ok.. he's like a father-figure to me...
wanted to call him popz... but sound a little too old..
so create a whole new nick and call him pupz instead...hehe

He was telling me abt his trip to overseas n stuff....
then mention abt relationships... why is it when he had a gf, he'll b like irritated n stuff...
Then he mention abt something tt someone in the past mentioned to me before....
wouldn't it b gd tt even if best frenz.. can juz hang out together lying on the sofa, reading or doing nothing at all... knowing tt nothing will happen between the two..

Then came my reply, it's always like this...
the responsibility of maintaining the relationship becomes quite a drag... or more sophisticately "burden", with that ard somewat u will forget how impt this person is to u.. u will juz forget abt why u wan her or him to b in ur life.. u will forget the good things abt them...
u will either remember only when he or she leaves u.. or u will nv remember anymore...
u take for granted tt since he or she is already there, no need to do anything la..

He told me tt.. he dun wan to b in a relationship anymore.. juz go out with the girl he like... n will juz propose to her when the time is rite...

Amazing tt he thinks tt way... but well.. everyone has their own way of handling their relationships n life...

Then i came upon this sentence tt he said.. tt i felt so damn bloody true.. haha...

"It's the distance that will make feelings grow, anything readily available will be taken for granted.." --pupz

To Pupz:
u have enlightened me...
Dun worry.. u'll find ur soulmate.. then u will tell me how foolish ur tots are then.. haha....

To frenz:
Spread some loving man!haha.. got tt from some movie..
treasure wat u have... if it's meant to b, it will b.. no point being upset..
time will heal...
^_^

Hope this entry doesn't bored u... any tots... juz leave it in the comments.. i'll try to read when i'm in NZ...
Love you all... Chill... peace out. aiiii..